So let's be real for a minute. When traveling (whether alone or accompanied) there's always the possibility for overseas, foreign, hot hook up's. And hell yeah! Why should a little sexual promiscuity be limited to Vegas? If exploring the realm of sexual openness is something that has crossed your mind, there are a few things you should keep in mind. First, safety. I know that sounds boring and cliché, but it's definitely important. And I'm not just referring to our good ol' latex wingman. The type of people you meet will vary greatly on where you meet them. The only overseas hookup I was frisky enough to have was actually with an fellow Yankee in Peru. We met at our hostel in Lima, Peru, and we ended traveling around together for the rest of our trips. Knowing that other people were traveling with us and that they knew where we met meant that is something God awful happened, someone would know who I was with. Whether you meet people in hostels, bars, on a train, in jail, or wherever, you always want to be aware of your surroundings. And keep in mind, if a super hot French guy woos you with that accent and charm, you are probably not the first, nor will you be the last, girl they pick up on. But don't fret! There's is nothing wrong with having a good foreign romp!! When in Rome! Just make sure you always have a stock of those latex wingmen I mentioned earlier, and if you're not against it, a couple of Plan B pills (for you lady travelers). Also, before you engage in, you know, the whole engaging thing, make sure you have determined whether you're looking for just a hookup or something more. If the latter of those options is the case, invest a little more time in exploring your options before doing the horizontal tango. The last thing you want is to go on an expedition of self-discovery after a painful breakup just to end up getting hurt again. Screw that shit (pardon my German). Remember. You're way to awesome to feel anything less than awesome about yourself.
If hooking up is totally not your bag baby, then own it and stay true to your convictions. That is more admirable and respectful than doing something that would diminish your personal integrity. Either way. Get it giiiiirl.
Cheers,
Danni
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You listened! Thanks for the info Danni! Muah <3
ReplyDeleteI like your ideas of being "safe"....but we also need to think about the ole STD's...... so always a condom.....girls don't know what number they are.
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